A mentor
for the journey.
"I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten..."
- Joel 2:25-26God has the power to restore everything that has been taken—whether it’s hope, joy, or peace. Even in the midst of hardship, He is renewing and healing, bringing back what was lost or destroyed. His promise of restoration is steadfast, and I trust that He will bring renewal into every area of your life.
I want that but…how?
You’ve read the books, listened to podcasts, maybe even tried counseling or support groups. But still, something feels missing. Betrayal trauma can be incredibly complex, and it can affect you in ways you never expected.
You don’t need more information—you need someone to walk you through it, someone who truly gets it.
Laura knows the way.
I help wives of sexually-addicted men reclaim their God-given voice, break the cycle of betrayal trauma, and live out of abundance as God’s Beloved.
Hi, I’m Laura, a Certified Professional Mentor, and I’ve been exactly where you are today. By God’s grace alone, I stand on the other side of the deep waters of my own betrayal trauma, calling out with all my heart: Don’t lose hope—this is the Way!
I say this with complete confidence: Healing is not just possible—it’s within reach. I know it might feel impossible to see it right now, but trust me, you are going to get through this.
Regardless of your situation—whether you're trying to rebuild your marriage, navigating separation, or moving forward after divorce, your worth isn’t defined by your spouse’s choices. Renewal is possible.
You are Christ’s beloved and you are worthy of a life full of goodness, mercy, and unconditional love.
I remember the desperation of needing someone to reach into the fog and turbulent waters that were consuming me. I am forever grateful that Jesus met me there, extending His hand and placing the right people in my life who knew the Way.
I would truly be honored to walk alongside you as you heal from the deep pain of betrayal and rediscover peace, joy, and a renewed sense of self. Your healing isn’t just necessary—it’s God’s deepest longing for you.
Do I need a guide?
Healing takes time. It requires patience, self-compassion, and often professional guidance to navigate the emotional complexities and begin to build a new, even better life than before.
You could greatly benefit from a mentor if:
1. You’re seeking support for trauma triggers and personal healing related to sexual betrayal.2. You feel stuck, unsure of your next steps, and exhausted from trying to figure it all out on your own.3. You’ve tried books, therapy, or podcasts, but still feel like something is missing in your healing.4. You long for a safe, judgment-free space where your pain is acknowledged and your progress is supported.5. You’re done living in constant chaos and are ready to take steady, proactive steps toward peace, safety, and emotional stability—no longer willing to sacrifice your dignity or settle for less.6. You need help setting healthy boundaries and making decisions that reflect your values and protect your heart.7. You’re ready to move beyond survival and reclaim your voice, your worth, and your God-given identity.8. You desire consistent, faith-based guidance from someone who has walked this road and come out stronger.9. You’re ready to trade constant anxiety for calm, confidence, and peace—willing to make the hard choices, but no longer willing to make them alone.10 You’re ready to step into the woman God created you to be—stronger, healthier, more grounded—and finally begin to dream, hope, and believe in your future again.How does a mentor help?
A mentor is someone who’s been where you are and walks with you through the struggle, offering wisdom, guidance, and real support. We don’t just give advice—we share the journey.
Mentoring can help you with practical support like:
Learning how to recognize and regulate trauma triggers in the moment.
Creating and implementing personalized boundaries that align with your healing.
Building a healing routine with worksheets, tools, and weekly goals to stay grounded.
Gaining clarity about your relationship dynamics and your own next steps.
Learning how to advocate for yourself with confidence and calm.
Tracking your growth over time so you can actually see your progress.
Mentoring for recovery and healing is for those tired of the chaos and ready to commit to the hard but transformative daily work. Healing is not always linear—it’s normal to have ups and downs. Mentoring, mindfulness tools, self-care, and a strong support system can help speed up recovery.
The key is to have someone who knows the way through to help guide you. That’s where I come in!
Just as recovery is always his choice, taking the BRAVE step towards healing is yours.
In it with you
I get it—not just because I’ve studied it, but because I’ve lived through it—the devastation and life-altering impact of my husband’s porn addition. The heartbreak, the confusion, the fear that you might never feel whole again—it’s real. But so is the possibility of restoration.
I know what it’s like to feel lost, overwhelmed, or stuck in grief. I can help you find clarity when everything feels foggy.You are not responsible for someone else’s betrayal, whether it’s infidelity, pornography, or any breach of trust. Their actions are not your fault, and their recovery is not your responsibility. Recognizing your worth and protecting your emotional well-being is key to healing.
I can point you to the right resources, help you avoid the trial-and-error frustration, and walk with you toward real healing—so you don’t have to do it alone.I can say what others can’t. Often, family members don’t understand, well-meaning pastors may lack the insight, and many care providers are bound by limitations in what they can offer. But as your mentor, I’m here to be real with you. I’m not going to lecture or offer shallow solutions.
I’ll speak truthfully and from experience—no fluff, no false promises—just real, hard-earned wisdom about what truly helps in healing.This is not a “quick fix" kind of deal. I’m not here to check in once a week and hope things magically get better. I’m here for the entire journey—the highs, the lows, and every moment in between. Every step counts, and you’re capable of more than you realize.
I’ll gently encourage you when it’s time to grow, cheer you on through your progress, and help you keep moving forward—no matter how slow or messy it feels.1:1 Mentoring with Laura
It is my privilege to journey alongside you—with Jesus leading the way—through every twist, turn, and storm until you, too, reach the other side. My hope is to guide you from pain and brokenness into healing, restoration, and the abundant life God has for you. No matter what your husband chooses.
What Happens In A Mentoring Session?
Check-In
Start with prayer and an honest look at your week—victories, setbacks, and where you need support.
Insights
Reflect on the selected readings, audio, or assignments, unpacking what’s hitting home and what’s challenging you.
Next Steps
Identify key takeaways and set intentional action steps to keep building real momentum in recovery.
Special Features
Four 80-minute 1:1 mentoring sessions per month
Private text & voice message support between sessions
Live via phone or video w/ flexible scheduling
Access to proven recovery tools and resources
Accessible from anywhere in the world
Topics & Themes
We’ll use resources from the premier thought leaders in betrayal trauma healing and a few helpful tools I’ve developed, all in alignment with what Scripture says about human sexuality and marriage.
Every resource I require or recommend helped transform my life and is meant to offer you new perspectives, challenge the stories you are believing about yourself and others, and prompt you to take meaningful action.
If you are willing to partner with God, trust the wisdom of those who have gone before you, and do the brave work…you will find peace and joy again.
Healing from betrayal trauma isn’t about rushing—it’s about moving forward with intention, self-compassion, and resilience.
A mentorship approach provides guidance, accountability, and the emotional space needed to navigate each stage.
What are the Expectations?
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Mentoring is offered as a month-to-month commitment, with the flexibility to pause if needed. For those ready to go deeper, we offer a discounted rate for quarterly payments.
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While mentoring is month-to-month, I encourage new clients to give it at least three months. Healing relationships take time—time to build trust, establish connection, and begin seeing real movement. After those first few months, we’ll check in together and make sure this still feels like the right fit for you.
Let’s be honest: healing takes an annoyingly long amount of time(at least that is what I often thought…I just wanted to feel and be better already!). It’s frustrating, even unfair. But deep healing isn’t quick or linear. It takes intentional care and a whole lot of grace for yourself along the way. This journey might be messy at times, but you are absolutely worth the time and effort it takes.
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There’s no one-size-fits-all timeline for healing from betrayal trauma—whether it's infidelity, emotional betrayal, or deception. But research and real-life experience suggest that true recovery often takes 18 months to 5 years after the last betrayal or discovery—meaning once there are no new lies, betrayals, or hidden truths emerging. That’s why I recommend at least one year of focused mentorship for the deepest and most lasting impact.
Just as the first year of recovery from sex addiction is crucial and sets the stage for lasting success, the initial year of focused support for betrayal can significantly alter the trajectory of your life.
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That’s a fair and important question. Mentoring is a deeply personal process, and not every approach works for every person. If you give it a try and find that it’s not quite clicking—for any reason—we want you to find what does work.
Our standard policy is to require 30 days written notice to end mentoring and stop any future payments. However, we also understand that sometimes you just know early on that it’s not the right fit. If at any point during your first month of mentoring you decide it isn’t a match, we’ll honor your decision. Simply provide notice within 5 days of your next scheduled payment, and we’ll cancel your plan and refund any unused portion of a prepaid package.
We honor your journey, your time, your investment, and the courage it takes to keep searching for the support that’s right for you.
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There’s a shift happening in the world of recovery—and it's a good one. Traditionally, each person in the relationship was expected to “stay on their own side of the tracks,” healing separately before reconnecting. But emerging models, like Early Recovery Couples Empathy (ERCE) and Couple-Centered Recovery, recognize the power of healing together.
When both partners engage in intentional, individualized work—and begin gently building relational healing together—it can often lead to faster and deeper progress. This couple-centered approach doesn't skip the hard work; it weaves the journeys of the addicted partner, the betrayed partner, and the relationship itself into a more connected and compassionate path forward.
For many, this model has helped shorten the traditional 3 to 5-year recovery timeline—and brought renewed hope much sooner than expected.
Learn more about our Couples Mentoring.
Am I the right fit?
I know how scary it is to reach out for help. And finding the right help? That can feel overwhelming. You’re desperate to be seen and understood, but the weight of it all makes even that feel impossible. I see you. I want to wrap you in a big hug and remind you: You won’t feel like this forever.
Finding the courage and strength to take that next step will be one of the greatest gifts you ever give yourself. And it’s worth taking the time to find the support that truly resonates with you. You didn’t choose to be betrayed, but choosing the right help—that’s completely in your hands, and it’s one of the most powerful choices you can make.
When my world was crumbling all around me, I desperately searched for hope—for stories of survival and renewal, for anything I could relate to and hold onto. I was looking for light. If you would like to learn more about my journey, you can read my story here.
If you’re ready to do the brave work of reclaiming your life, my mentoring process is here to support you. Or maybe you just need a safe space to share your story—I’d be honored to listen and help you figure out your next step, whether that’s with me or someone else who can best support you.
Simple Steps to Get Started
1. Schedule a free call with me to discover more about the healing journey.
The call will take about 45 minutes. Phone or video is available.
2. We’ll share our stories, discuss the recovery mentoring process, and answer your questions.
All about getting to know me, no pressure to make a commitment.
3. Take some time to discern if mentoring is right for you. I’ll check-in after three days.
Pray. Discuss with your people. Make the best decision for you.
Schedule a free, 45-minute call with Laura. No pressure. Simply a safe—judgement free—space to share your story.
I don’t take lightly the courage it takes to reach out for help. I would be honored to listen and help you discern your next step, whether that’s with me or someone else who can best support you.
Ready to reclaim your life?
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